Sunday 12 February 2012

Man goes through 8 Life Stages .. according to Erikson.

There have been many theories about man's life cycle and all the stages he goes through at different ages in his life. One such model is that of Erik Erikson and it outlines eight stages very precisely with their conflicts, struggle and possible solutions. I wrote an entire article explaining each stage with examples. Check it out.

Eight Life Stages that Man goes Through in Life. (< Click here to read.)

Eight Life Stages Man goes Through.

I know the image doesn't show the last stage. But it's there!  

Monday 6 February 2012

A Prisoner of Birth.. & United States Most Wanted Criminal Jody Thompson's Prison Break.

Today I borrowed a novel from the library called A Prisoner of Birth written by Jeffrey Archer. It looks like an interesting book. Also, a couple of friends recommended it to me so I believe it shouldn't disappoint me. I plan to finish it within this week and I will definitely write a review on it. This book reminds of this incredibly remarkable documentary I once watched on the National Geographic channel. It was about this successful prison escape attempted by one of the most wanted criminals in the United States in 2005, named Jody Thompson. Below, you can see a picture of  the actual criminal. The documentary had an actor who I thought closely resembled Wentworth Miller from the show 'Prison Break' and for a long time I assumed perhaps the show was also inspired by this documentary. That is not so, though. 

Anyway, the documentary narrates the entire story in first person, of his incredibly creative and meticulous planning, his hypersensitive senses and quick thinking that lead him to use a furniture delivery truck to escape the prison! His is one of the prison escape success stories that are definitely worth a watch! I was so impressed by his luckiness on so many incidents and also his calm and laid-back manner in dealing with stressful situations at hand. Especially, how whenever the police chased, he managed to surprise even the trained and experienced officers by outsmarting and outmanoeuvring their collective planning single-handedly! I, actually, inwardly felt joy every time he skilfully dodged the police. The guy had a personality! 

When he was finally totally surrounded by the police and had absolutely no lucky chance of escaping any more, he was smart enough to surrender rather than risk getting shot. His surrender wasn't any less dramatic. He called 911 and told the operator that he was one of  the United States' most wanted criminals who was ready to surrender. Imagine the surprise for the operator! :D The following video is a short trailer of the documentary. If you are interested in watching the entire documentary, leave a comment below and I will post that link for you too. If you are an adventure-lover, I'm sure you'll enjoy this one! :D
                                                           


And by the way, today I was forced to sit in a Media class with friends where I attended a lecture on News reporting. I'm glad I did though because it was kind of informative. I found out how the word NEWS was coined.. I always thought it originated from the word "new"; meaning something new that needs to be told, hence News. However, to my surprise it's an abbreviation for North, East, West and South. :o I'm really surprised I didn't know that! 
Anyway, if you have any comments about the novel 'A Prisoner of Birth' or the famous story of the prisoner, Jody Thompson, please feel free to use the form below! :)

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Saturday 4 February 2012

Cat's Eye. Childhood Bullying and its Scars..

Cat's Eye by Margaret
Awood
Cat's eye by Margaret Atwood is a great novel I once read back in High School because it was a part of my syllabus. This was one book in my syllabus that I actually finished and enjoyed reading so much. It's about this character named Elaine Risley and how she has a bully of a friend in her childhood named Cordelia who, being a subject of her father's criticism, victimizes Elaine and scars her for life. The novel continues describing Elaine recovery from all those scars caused by Cordelia through her catharsis in the form of her artwork, while also giving flashbacks of her childhood that led to them. It was an awesome novel that I'd love to read again but for the life of me I don't know where I've lost the book. Anyway, I would definitely recommend it to you if you are remotely interested in reading about psychology, psychosis, bullying, rain, nostalgia of the past and the feelings related to it. It's a beautifully written novel. Just do check it out! :D


If you've read this novel or plan to read it, do comment below to let me know. :) 

Education: Is it merely about teaching skills?

Following are a few insights into Education. Just what defines education? I wrote a few articles regarding it. Check them out :)

Is merely Teaching Skills Enough? (< Click here to read)

Is merely Teaching Skills Enough?


Why We Need a Value-Based Education System in Pakistan? (< Click here to read)

Why We Need a Value-Based Education System in Pakistan?


The Right to Primary Education in Pakistan: A Right or a Privilege? (< Click here to read)
The Right to Primary Education in Pakistan: A Right or a Privilege?

Please give your feedback. :)

Governance, Corruption, Democracy and the Image of Pakistan in the World.

As a Social Science student, I had to study and write about the governance in Pakistan a lot. I wrote many such articles and  published them on my other website; www.findingnew.com. Today I thought I would share these articles here as well in case someone's interested.


Poor Democracy and Bad Governance in Pakistan, Why? (< Click here to read)

Poor Democracy and Bad Governance in Pakistan, Why?


Governance in Pakistan (< Click here to read)
Governance in Pakistan



Steps that the Government of Pakistan has Taken to Fight Corruption. (< Click here to read)
Steps that the Government of Pakistan has Taken to Fight Corruption.


Types of Corruption and What has been done about it so far? (< Click here to read)
Types of Corruption and What has been done about it so far?



What is Corruption? What are the Drivers of Corruption in Pakistan? (< Click here to read)
What is Corruption? What are the Drivers of Corruption in Pakistan?




The Image of Pakistan in the International World(< Click here to read)
The Image of Pakistan in the International World.






The Security Dilemma in International Politics. (< Click here to read)
The Security Dilemma in International Politics.


I would appreciate any feedback you want to give regarding these articles. You are welcome to comment below. :)


The Kashmir Issue

The Kashmir Issue has been an unsolvable problem for Pakistan, India and the international community for a very long time. Apart from the pressing problem of Palestine and Israel that has reached no solution either, the Kashmir issue drags on, stalemated, begging for a solution. There have been numerous debates and articles suggesting solutions and roles of different countries. The following article is my attempt at the role of Pakistan. Your feedback is appreciated. 

The Kashmir Issue & Role of Pakistan

Kashmir is an 86,000 square miles area surrounded by Pakistan, Afghanistan, China and India located in central Asia. It has an approximate population of 13 million Kashmiris and is larger than 87 sovereign countries. However, despite its size it has still been a dependent state ruled by others for centuries; firstly the Mauryas, then the Mughals, the Maharajahs and so on.

Unfortunately with the independence of two of its neighboring countries, Pakistan and India, from the British colonial rule, Kashmir became a disputed territory under the rule of its neighbors. Though the Kashmir Liberation Army overthrew its Hindu ruler shortly after the subcontinent’s partition; thereby setting a provisional government for Jammu and Kashmir, the Indian army did not let it enjoy their freedom for long. India invaded and occupied two-thirds of Kashmir, leaving one-third as Azad Jammu and Kashmir. The situation has been the same ever since. Except now it is worse.


Sadly, the plebiscite, given by the United Nations, allowing the people of Kashmir to choose which country to join was never held. The reason Kashmir issue still has not be resolved is the hostility between Pakistan and India; where India still considers Kashmir an integral part of its own territory and so refuses to give it up while Pakistan does not want India’s control and insists the dispute be determined on the basis of plebiscite. Moreover, Indian forces residing in Kashmir are constantly captivated in a continuous movement of extreme violence causing thousands of deaths each day.


Truly, no nation can survive in perpetual slavery for long and the people of Kashmir, sooner or later, will inevitably need to take an action to resolve their fate. However, for Kashmir to obtain complete independence is an unlikely idea because of its strategic position in the region which makes its independence a destabilizing factor. Nevertheless, clearly, both India and Pakistan do not favor the total independence of Kashmir anyway.

Kashmir is a Muslim state like Pakistan and Kashmir’s association with the State of Pakistan seems more ideal than with India. This is due to the rampant activity of brutality Indian forces have engaged in Jammu and Kashmir that falls under their rule now. However, at the moment, Pakistan’s standing in the international world is poorer than that of India’s; the other option Kashmir has. Pakistan is faced with numberless problems of its own within its own territory as well as with the rest of the world. These include terrorism, religious extremism, political instability, unchecked corruption at all levels, poverty, unemployment and so on. Pakistan’s role in the Kashmir conflict is simply to improve itself in all aspects and become a stable country that can self-sufficiently stand on its own. Only in such a state of affairs will the people of Kashmir want to associate themselves with our country.


Kashmir, by and large constituting a population of Muslims, would more likely annex with the state of Pakistan provided the country can ensure its security. We have many examples from world history showing weak nations that joined stronger ones in search for security and dependence. Alaska, for instance, joined America in 1959 because of America’s more established and stable governance and security in economic and political aspects for its citizens. Pakistan needs to offer that to its citizens and rid itself of all its cultural, religious and even provincial differences. Unfortunately, on the other hand, Pakistan’s own province, Balochistan, which is the largest, wants to detach itself from the country. This uncertainty in Balochistan is clearly due to the negligence of the Pakistani government to the basic needs of the Balochis; their literacy problem, health issues, lack of infrastructure, jobs, law, order and security in such a vast undeveloped mountainous region. Similarly, Pakistan has been unable to resolve the depreciating situation of law and order in FATA and NWFP. Any country whose own provinces desire to separate from its sovereignty would only more repel any other nations that want to adjoin with it.


Owing to such a dilapidated image, Pakistan’s chances of getting more foreign investment like China and other investor-friendly countries, has suffered and this inability adds to the instability of Pakistan’s economic growth. Pakistan direly needs to end corruption within the nation and develop itself socially, politically and economically so Kashmir can find security and confidence in it. Pakistan, unfortunately, is considered the land of terrorist in the global media especially due to unfortunate events in the last decade. Despite holding some of the most beautiful and scenic areas in the world, its tourist industry is hardly attracting any foreigners because they are frightened to visit Pakistan. This adds to the poor economic situation of the country.


Another example is that of Soviet Union that collapsed in 1991 giving independence to five central Asian states namely; Turkmenistan, Tajikistan, Kyrgyzstan, Uzbekistan and Kazakhstan. This collapse was expected due to the repression of their local cultures, negligence to the increasing ethnic tensions and environment troubles of the minor states in the Soviet Union. Seeing this, Pakistan’s role in the Kashmir issue is to become the appealing option that Kashmir would readily want to opt for. Then the people of Kashmir would press for a plebiscite themselves. On the other hand, Kashmir, seeing Pakistan’s current conditions, rather wants to have nothing to do with it despite it being the ideal option. India, which comprises of mostly Hindu population and one which has practiced major violence in parts of Kashmir falling under their control, seems a more attractive option for Kashmir to associate with according to the rest of the world. This is due to India’s better standing in the global world and India’s more established political and economical state of affairs.


Pakistan’s recent crises not only involve extreme political upheaval, socio-economic issues, security threats, foreign drone attacks but also energy crises, food and electricity shortages, inflation, overpopulation etc which have very much weakened Pakistan’s position in the global world. Pakistan needs to become self-reliant by stabilizing its industry and economic institution in order to improve its image in the world. Pakistan is capable of it all as our land is naturally gifted with all that it takes to be developed; the people of Pakistan just need to vote for the right leaders that can lead the enthusiastic people of Pakistan in the right direction to develop this country economically and resolve its minor differences at all levels. Pakistan is rich in minerals and has a land capable of yielding better produce for the entire nation’s basic needs and this should be done in a sustainable way. Pakistan can easily develop itself faster because it holds resources and a lot of capacity. When comparing it to India, which has a huge population and as many problems to handle, Pakistan just needs to prioritize its economic growth to succeed in

the world as India has been doing. The people of Pakistan should focus less on the religious turmoil rising around the Muslim world and especially within Pakistan and realize what is best for them at this point to improve their position in the world to hold up a valued image. All this can be attained with more economic growth, self-sufficiency, technological advancement, improved education, and less time wastage on non-productive activities or maximizing differences. Pakistan needs to bring absolute literacy so social awareness will address the problem of wrong leadership, cultural conflicts, justice, corruption and sectarianism.


India is continually considered an enemy to Pakistan. If Pakistan and India enter into a friendly relationship like Canada and USA and help each other, Pakistan will not need to go on with its proxy war politics with India and be able to reduce its participation in the US war on terrorism. With a peaceful relationship with its neighbors, Pakistan can then use its resources to focus more on its own people’s welfare and work on more useful goals. Hence, Pakistan needs to address its dilemmas from within and establish itself well economically, socially and politically so that the people of Kashmir would want to join hands with it.

Friday 3 February 2012

The Paradox of Choice: Do you really have a choice?

The Paradox of choice is one bewildering concept that everyone of us has at least once definitely questioned.  Have you ever wondered about it? Well, I published an article on it. Check it out and feel free to share your views!

The Paradox of Choice.. Ever Wondered?


Since the creation of mankind, about 65 million years ago, man has discovered the limitless diversity of choices he has been exposed to. The ability to choose has been learned quite proudly by man though only experience has taught him its rather bitter paradoxical nature. If paradox is defined as “a statement that seems self-contradictory or absurd but in reality expresses a possible truth” and choice, as “a mental process of judging merits of the possible options available and choosing one of them”, then paradox of choice is the right to choose that does not actually exist.

While, the right of choice is every individual's domain, it has proven to be a far more complex enigma. According to Kathleen hall, “one's life is a product of choices". Man seemingly possesses freewill but his choices are seen to be rather a product of the circumstances providence creates for him; the limitations of the options he is presented with make the concept of free choice absurd. Ever since the beginning of time, man's actions have been influenced by social pressures such as his familial background, caste, societal norms, beliefs, physical constraints etc. Such external limitations have shaped his perceptions and life choices.

Although freedom of choice is meant to facilitate the lives of men; suiting their individual requirements, today’s highly commercialized world of information age and technology has rather driven the minds of men dizzy with far too many options. Ever since the end of communism and the advent of capitalism, the miraculous possibilities in the lifestyles of people have greatly affected human priorities from humanity to materialism. Now, man not only has the choice amongst uncountable hair products but he can also alter his physical features with cosmetic surgery and even change the sex of his child before it is conceived! The latest fashion trends have to be followed by the public and those unaware are looked down upon.

Man is mostly a passive absorber in the face of persuasion of the dominant culture in his society. Seldom people venture to deviate from the general rule and prefer to fit in with the regular crowd. The capitalist world of today has inclined people's choices towards their projected products in order to favor their economic growth. Media has been an effective tool in brainwashing people and making the majority of the world's population conformists. This is how the right of choice has become non-personal and non-existent. Above all, the prevalent view of liberty of action and freedom of choice has been largely misunderstood. The numerous choices that the present world offers to man have crippled his decision making power and resulted in more dissatisfaction.

Although, in theory, commercialism presents more options to facilitate a better final decision; in practice, nonetheless, it has deprived man of his personal choice in the face of the dominant preference. Choice no longer remains personal and man subconsciously wishes he actually had his verdict in his choices. Therefore, the biggest paradox of choice is that we cannot choose what we want to choose.


Why You Shouldn't Stereotype.

Stereotyping is a human tendency that we all share to some extent. Following is a short article I once wrote about it. Feel free to give your feedback. :D 

Stereotyping? (< Click here to read)


Stereotyping?

Don't Underestimate Your Opponent.

Aerobic listening is a great skill to acquire. It is due to our poor listening most of the times that we tend to underestimate our opponent. Not a good idea at all. Check out the article I wrote about it given below. It might be useful for you.

Learning Not to Underestimate Your Opponent.  (< Click here to read)

Learning Not to Underestimate Your Opponent.  

What Makes a Suicide Bomber?

Sometime ago I was really interested in reading and writing about suicide bombers. That's when I wrote this post. It is different from other articles you may have read about terrorists, because this looks at the mindset of a suicide bomber.. Share your views if you read it. Will appreciate it.

Mind of a Suicide Bomber..

From the mind of a suicide bomber, things are very much different than how we perceive them. To understand the state of his mind and motives, it is necessary to view things from his lens by putting ourselves in his shoes, his social life and culture.

One opinion held by many thinkers attributes a terrorist’s extreme behavior to the miseries, poverty and a lack of sense of belonging in his life. The feeling of a lack of identity automatically attracts an impoverished person towards groups that are willing to form close ties with him. Psychological evidence suggests that terrorists are usually ordinary young boys from unremarkable backgrounds who join the radical terrorist comrades in hope of finding an identity, social status and an opportunity for action after a lifetime of rejection and dissatisfaction. In such close-knit groups, they are not only given a sense of belonging but a sense of meaning, connectedness and affiliation which was previously lacking in their lives. These motivating factors subjugate them enough that they will willingly go to any length to abide by the group’s norms, even if the truth projected to them is false.

Take the example of a young gullible boy who is not only deprived of education, especially proper religious education but also lacks an exposure to the outside world, being stuck in some remote northern area of Pakistan for his entire life. With his youth at its prime and a desire for action, he would certainly become the most suitable tool for a suicide attack. When this young boy is taken out of his poverty-stricken home and shown around the big cities of Pakistan; the dazzling lights of advertisements, developed infrastructure and the westernized dressing of the other citizens will inexorably strike this young boy as secular. Suppose within his little comradeship, the prevailing indecency in our local media is used to manifest a blatant rejection of the Qur’anic teachings by the westernized citizens in our society, who are then termed as “Kafirs” in front of him. Moreover, verses from the Holy Qur’an are cited to him that ‘literally’ order the killing of infidels in return for Heaven. This mentally poisoned boy will inevitably jump at carrying out the “sacred task” in search of acquiring the reward of salvation in the life hereafter.

The stark contrast in these two extremes of living, despite being in the same country, is bound to frustrate the weak-minded youth with its injustice and reinforce the feeling of misery in him. In such a state, he is undoubtedly susceptible to being brainwashed at the hands of any opportunists that attempt to exploit this weakness for their interests. Another incentive used may be the funding for his family after his death. In such a traumatic mental state, he will be unhinged enough to want escape from this world and if that can benefit his family with a handsome cash, he will be more than willing to do it. Thus to him, these suicide attacks are justified and noble. His actions stem more from his loyalty to his own group, reward in the hereafter and the religious culture that he is told is threatened and requires protection, than any personal hatred towards us.

His emotional commitment to his cause and his comrades shows he is not psychologically deviant. Therefore I reckon that instead of simply antagonizing these groups, the state should arrange ways of educating these young boys of Pakistan living in such areas so that they are not easily picked by any terrorist group. The total neglect of the government towards the quality of life of these poor citizens and the insecurity in their area is only more conducive to the mission of the terrorist organizations. Pakistan is a dualistic state where the corrupted elite only focus on their own interests; the general public of Pakistan cannot be bothered for their lack of national character. Moreover, the growing propagation of secular ideologies in the capitalist media of today is creating an indifferent and shallow Pakistani youth that only seeks pleasure and leisure. Serious measures need to be taken to do away with their material deprivation in addition to at least a basic religious education from an authentic source. Moreover, being Muslims, every layman of Pakistan, irrespective of class or culture, should acquire a considerable knowledge about the real teachings of Qur’an, in its right context and learn about the life of the Holy Prophet (saw). This will not only help clear their doubts about their religion but also enable them to confront the global issue of “Islam being linked with terrorism”. A certain amount of communication maybe needed to acquaint these young boys with the innocent population of Pakistan that is usually targeted to create political upheaval.

The story of a young terrorist sent on a mission to Wah Cantt is great evidence that supports this argument. One of the three young terrorists, upon seeing the poor laborers of the factory realized he was falsely informed about his fellow citizens and gave up his mission. This is a tangible evidence of the fact that it is the socialization and the wrong information incorporated into their heads that arouses such an attitude in them. Instead of blowing up their innocent families to combat them, the state should not only cut down on the increasing indecency in our media and secularization in our society but also recruit and educate every individual of these areas. State’s attempt at conforming to religion will surely raise second thoughts in the minds of these young terrorists about the credibility of their exploiters.



Thursday 2 February 2012

Significance of Self-esteem, Self-Reliance and Integrity of Character.

Self-esteem is an integral part of human psyche. If we lack in this department, survival becomes challenging. Closely linked to it are self-reliance and integrity of character that aid in developing and enhancing self-esteem. Read the articles below to gain an in-depth insight into these qualities. They are written by me. :)

Benefits of Having Integrity of Character. (< Click here to read)
Benefits of Having Integrity of Character.


Benefits of Becoming Self-Reliant in Life. / Why We Need Self-Reliance. (< Click here to read)
Benefits of Becoming Self-Reliant in Life.



Why Do We Need Self-Esteem for a Healthy Survival? (< Click here to read)
Why Do We Need Self-Esteem for a Healthy Survival? 


How Your Level of Self-Esteem Can Affect Your Memory!  (< Click here to read)
How Your Level of Self-Esteem Can Affect Your Memory! 

If you found this post useful or would just like to comment, your feedback is welcome. :)